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Reading GuidesSeptember 5, 20269 min read

Best Books About Love and Relationships

The greatest novels about love in all its forms — from the passionate to the devastating, the romantic to the quietly heartbreaking.

Love in Literature

Love is the most universal subject in fiction, and the most difficult to write well. The greatest novels about love avoid sentimentality — they show love as it actually is: complicated, irrational, transformative, and frequently destructive. This list collects the novels that treat love with the seriousness and nuance it deserves.

Romantic Love — The Great Love Stories

Anna Karenina — Leo Tolstoy (1878)

The greatest love story ever written is also a tragedy. Anna's passion for Count Vronsky destroys her marriage, her reputation, and ultimately her life. But Tolstoy's genius is that the parallel story — Levin's quieter love for Kitty — suggests that the deepest love is not the most dramatic. Nabokov called it the greatest novel ever written.

Love in the Time of Cholera — Gabriel García Márquez (1985)

Florentino Ariza waits fifty-one years, nine months, and four days for Fermina Daza. García Márquez's novel is the most extravagant love story of the twentieth century — a meditation on whether love is a disease, a destiny, or simply an act of will sustained over an entire lifetime. Written by the Nobel Prize winner at the height of his powers.

The English Patient — Michael Ondaatje (1992)

Four damaged people converge in a bomb-damaged Italian villa at the end of World War II. At the novel's centre is Almásy's desert love affair — told in fragments, out of chronological order, in some of the most beautiful prose of the twentieth century. Joint winner of the Booker Prize.

The Song of Achilles — Madeline Miller (2012)

The Iliad retold as a love story between Achilles and Patroclus. Miller's Orange Prize-winning debut captures the tenderness and inevitability of their relationship — you know how it ends, and the knowing makes every moment more precious. The most emotionally devastating retelling of Greek myth in modern fiction.

Love and Loss

The Remains of the Day — Kazuo Ishiguro (1989)

Stevens the butler's repressed love for Miss Kenton is never spoken, never acted upon, and revealed only through the gaps in his narrative. Ishiguro's Booker Prize winner is the greatest novel about love that never happens — and the quiet devastation of recognising, too late, what you have lost.

On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous — Ocean Vuong (2019)

A Vietnamese-American son writes a letter his illiterate mother will never read. Vuong's debut novel interweaves three kinds of love — maternal, romantic, and self — across a narrative that spans the Vietnam War, opioid-era rural America, and the space between languages where love and loss become indistinguishable.

A Thousand Splendid Suns — Khaled Hosseini (2007)

Two Afghan women — one a generation older — are married to the same abusive man. Their story spans thirty years of Afghan history, from Soviet occupation to Taliban rule, but at its core it is about the love between two women who find in each other the strength to survive. Over 38 million copies sold.

Love in All Its Complexity

Middlesex — Jeffrey Eugenides (2002)

Cal Stephanides narrates three generations of a Greek-American family and their own experience as an intersex person. The Pulitzer Prize winner is a love story about identity — about learning to love yourself when the world has not provided a category for what you are.

The God of Small Things — Arundhati Roy (1997)

The Booker Prize winner is fundamentally about forbidden love — between an Untouchable and a Syrian Christian woman in Kerala, between twin siblings whose bond exceeds what society permits. Roy's lush, nonlinear prose circles around the "Love Laws" that dictate who should be loved, and how, and how much.

Never Let Me Go — Kazuo Ishiguro (2005)

The love triangle between Kathy, Tommy, and Ruth — three students at a mysterious English boarding school — is rendered with heartbreaking tenderness. Ishiguro withholds the novel's horrifying premise until the reader is too emotionally invested to look away. A love story about what it means to be human when humanity itself is in question.

Why Love Stories Matter

The best love stories are never only about love. They are about power, class, identity, time, and mortality. Love is the lens through which these novels examine everything else — and that is why they endure.

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